Welcome to our newest addition to the newspaper: our advice column! To connect with our readers more, we are asking them to send in questions for our panel to answer. This week our panelist Pascale Gachette, who is also a member of the marketing committee, will be answering this week’s question:
“Someone I know be having sex with multiple guys from EACH fraternity.. should I tell her to slow down or let her be grown and do her? She clearly doesn’t care so why should I”
Hey guys, it’s pascale from the marketing committee! Today I’m gonna be giving some advice to our anonymous reader. So, they said,
“Someone I know be having sex with myltiple guys from EACH fraternity. Should I tell her to slow down or let her be grown and do her? She clearly doesn’t care, so why should I”
Signed, FAU sophomore.
So, in my opinion, if you guys are friends, and you feel like she’s acting out of her character by doing this, like, if this is not something that she usually does or she doesn’t usually act like this, then I would bring it up just to make sure she’s okay because some people, when they’re going through something, this is how they cope. So make sure that she’s okay first and foremost and make sure that you let her know that you’re always here for her. But after that, if she says like “Nah, no, no, I’m good. I’m just having fun. I’m just enjoying college”. Then I say let her do her. You know we’re in college and people, people, have fun, people do what they wanna do. So at the end of the day, her life is her life and her choices are her choices so I would just encourage her to be safe. Don’t make her feel judged and make sure you remind her that you guys are friends so good luck and let us know how it goes!
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